Satrapi’s father argues that “politics and sentiment don’t mix.” His views on this matter are warranted, considering the tumultuous environment he had probably grown up in. It is probably easier to say that the personal ideology that you keep in a world as unstable as Satrapi’s would be more important than the political ideologies t hat you want to see enacted, especially if they are as conflicting as the philosophies of fundamentalist Islam and dialectic humanism. With so much violence and cacophony, it is easy to get lost without strong moral support and strong mental ties. Those who have seen it all before are the same people that give Satrapi strength; yet, it is obvious that this emotional strength can be sapped from a person’s prolonged exposure to what appears to be a resolutionless conflict- even those same emotional ties that held Satrapi before begin to unravel just a little at the seams before they get to be strengthened. It is in this way that Satrapi builds, destroys, and then mends her image of politics and sentiment as one.
With her mother, Satrapi places strength not just in her guidance, but in her attitude. Her loving, nurturing nature tempered with the fire of an intellectual, outspoken woman gives Satrapi her revolutionary spark and so long as her mother is still fighting against injustice, Satrapi draws her own political strength from her mother’s eagerness. What is interesting are the scenes when Satrapi’s mom errs more on the side of prudence or caution in a motherly, protective sort of way- Satrapi’s trust in her mom tends to waver, and her path becomes unsure again. This is particularly noteworthy as Satrapi becomes increasingly more rebellious. She begins fighting back against all restrictive ideologies and her resentment mildly even includes her mother’s political indifference. While her mom respectfully just wishes Satrapi safe, Satrapi sees her as backing down, or perhaps mildly waffling against the opposition’s dominance. It can only be viewed as betrayal through the eyes of a teenager. Sometimes it takes Satrapi ending up in bad situations, and sometimes it just takes the realization that her mom still just cares for her despite everything else.
Satrapi’s relationship with her grandmother is one that is more gentle and kind. Her grandmother always behaves kindly toward Satrapi, and her demeanor reflects that of any typical grandmother. Yet, from her grandmother, Satrapi learns what it means to be Iranian. The only time her grandmother ever gets mad at her was when she betrays another Iranian to the police when they questioned her about her makeup. Her grandmother knows that all Iranians share something together that cannot be ignored and as such, it cannot be betrayed, even over threat of physical harm or arrest. She constantly reminds Satrapi to “remember who you are” and what kind of identity that entails. Even though Satrapi’s parents, with their fiery political progressiveness, has worked towards the ideals of communism, it is Satrapi’s grandmother who seems to have championed the system in practice. For her, even her enemies are equals once the fighting’s over.